Don't put overload upon your brain

 Don't put overload upon your brain

Why most people are not happy today? Why most people do not know the secret of happiness. If we talk about this question, then this question is very important because people give load on the mind more than the capacity. Don't you know why people put so much load on their 2 pound little brain? Actually they do not know the principle of life. Just as a beautiful car is parked in front of us and we do not know how to drive, then for us this car is nothing more than a toy and tea. 

Even if the cost of this car is in crores, so is our life. The universe was beautifully created out of no. But the saddest thing is that we do not know how to live a beautiful life. The way a car was nothing more than a toy, if you do not know how to live in the same way, then this life is useless for you. Time was never good and bad and neither good will it be bad. 

Only the grace of this person's life can make this life a heaven or a hell. Actually the secret of happiness does not lie in any saint, temple, mosque and gurudwara. The secret of this happiness lies only in knowing which things are in our control and who are not in our control, which things are not in your control. Nothing will come without suffering by spending unnecessary time on it.

Out of your control

Today you are going to know such a secret that will change your thinking forever, which will tell you that secret of happiness. To know the secret of which you are eagerly reading every line of this book and this secret will change the way of thinking of not only you but your family friend's relative's life. 

This chapter will reveal the secret that you absolutely do not have to do and which are not in your control and what are the things that are the cause of your suffering. reasons for failure. 

There are reasons for your disappointment. reasons for poverty. There is a reason for sadness and there is also a reason for your weakness. What can't you change, don't you?

You can not change your past

Your past is that page of your life which is not going to be of any use to you. If you think about your past, talk. Talking about it, you only waste your time that energy because yesterday is that yesterday in your life which you cannot live again and it is out of your control.

What other people think about you

It is not possible to change the thinking of others or to follow others, to live up to the thinking of others, these three things are not possible. There is a very deadly disease inside human beings. 

Finding bad things in good things and got this disease as a gift from the family since childhood. Therefore, the thinking of others is not in your control and you cannot change it. Better it would be. 

Ignore it and keep on moving towards the goal of your life which is not in your control. You can't change it even if you want to. In this situation, it is better that you do not take the load of all these things on your mind.

Other people opinions

What would people call the world's biggest disease, do you know whatever you do? Most of the time you do that work with the thought of what people will say. What will people say if you don't become a doctor? What will people say if you fail? 

Askk yourself whether people's opinion is within your control. You can't change people's opinion, because people's opinion is like a display. If there is something else today, then tomorrow there will be some other opinion and neither you can change the opinion of people nor you can cast yourself according to their opinion. Leave people's talk, people's work. 

Sayy this life is yours. You just have to keep moving forward. Most people's happiness dies because of people's opinions. Neither the people will change nor the opinion of the people will change. It would be better if you change yourself, the opinion of people is out of your control.

What is age

If you have any kind of complaint regarding your age then I would just like to tell you that it is a non stop process. Neither complain nor regret about it because it is also not in your control. 

It would be better to ignore this and move towards the goal because there are many people in the world who have started at that stage of age. Where ordinary people go and take sannyas for life.

Weather

Weather is also such a nonstop process that you just don't have to. You are worried about the weather. If you express concern then you are wasting your time because the weather changes from moment to moment. 

Sometimes it hurts, sometimes there is shade and sometimes it rains. Do not pay attention to these small things and ignore them and attract happiness, success, love and full of joy of life. Whatever things we have mentioned in the above lines. 

These things are the real cause of your sadness, despair, indifferent distress. Because the things which are not in your control, neither you can change them nor you can achieve success in life with those things.

When any situation, any time and no weather is under our control, then it will be better. Let us focus on our goal instead of focusing our attention on it. If you want to be successful in life, want to be happy then stop focusing on all these things.

What is in your control

There are some such activities in our life, of which we are always surveyed. No other person can help me in this even if he wants because we are also its creators. Without it all we are who happens to be entirely on our own bus. 

Whether through this we can create a wonderful and beautiful creation of life or we can also create an ugly creation and the most beautiful thing is that God himself made me its owner.

Your thoughts

You are the master of your idea and you are completely free to take any thought. You can help to take life in a new direction by taking good thoughts because by changing your thoughts you can change your life. So change your life in your hands and change your thoughts change your life.

Your powerful words

As I mentioned a little bit about the power of the word in the previous chapter.But in this chapter I would like to tell about that infinite and immeasurable power of the word. 

Words are sharper than a sword, they are deeper than the sea. If you know how to use the right words, then there will be happiness and success in life for eternity and the most beautiful thing is that the secret of this success is in the control of every person who wants to do it and the person makes the right use of it. You can always open the door of happiness and success in life forever.

Your action

The reins and responsibility of my work rests in our hands. We can touch the heights through this work. Actually, let us realize that the work that we can do and its result is only and only in my control. 

There is no two opinion in this that we will not be successful because the creation has made human beings full of all virtues. Man becomes successful in whatever he works on

Often you assign tasks to your mind for no reason. If seen clearly, that work is not under the control of the mind. But man without reason has entrusted the responsibility to his mind, which does not come in its part at all, as I have well defined those things earlier.

Which is not in your control at all, if you are unhappy, frustrated, upset, helpless. If you are helpless then you are trying to do that work. Actually which is not necessary at all,

If you are worried about what the other thinks, what the other says, time, age, weather, then I will tell you a disturbing thing that you have no future because you are busy with those things which have far and away relation with your mind.

Not there. That's why today's time says that to live the best and peace loving life, do those things which are under your control, whose growth is in your control, whose right is in your control. The mind is never entangled in the work in which it gets tired, not the result.