Why can't you achieve your goals

Introduction 

In this article it will be disclosed about the blunder mistakes which is really utmost relevant and useful to identify?

Why can't you achieve your goals? Upon which you work regularly and passionately to make it happen and to achieve it? Even though you are absolutely not achieving them as per your expectations as well as your more hard work and passion.

 Because you have great expectations having your goals,objectives and dreams to accomplish them but that's not being  possible .

Whereas you have already set the goal as per guidence of your mentor or Book or some goal setting video even though why are you failed to make them reality? Why why why I am going to represent two most important as well as relevant things to check it out completely and then you will definitely acheive your goals even if they are too challenging or looking impossible too.

But you are really fit to achieve them. However you must actually answer these questions to ensure yourself that you are really interested in it or not .

There are two types of people for setting goals and having great expectations for achieving them, 

1 Result oriented person

2 Performance oriented person 

Espeslist estimated that before start running you must learn how to stand and then how to walk and of course then start running. Then the possibility of getting better in running would be great,

However here is everything quite opposite position in our lives.

Obviously It will be extremely necessary to know which is extremely important to do and which is of course not let us talk about both benifit as well as advantage.

Result oriented goals

Your dreams and aspirations determine how much of an effort you need to put in to achieve them stay steady with your dreams and be diligent.

It has many disadvantage to be result oriented because you will of course concentrated on results which will absolutely keep you much away from your results?

There are nearly 5 disadvantage of being results oriented person

(1)  Time waste 

The first thing which you will definitely loose is that time because you are entirely concentrated upon your results. you will never and ever work upon your goals requirements, strength,and basics. 

Because of it you have to do it repeatedly and  of course the person who does not focus on his goals requirements, strength and basics. There will be absolutely possibilities of failure in his goals.

If you want to reach your goal quite successfuly. If you want the result as you expected from your goal 

Then work on the requirements, strengths and basics of your goal.

(2) Energy waste

The second most important thing that you will waste in achieving your result is your energy which plays the most important role in achieving the goal and keeping you energetic.

According to the age, the strength energy that you get, put it in the right direction and with the right goal and your all!

(3) Loose expectations

When we move towards the goal and neither we get the result nor we are able to reach that goal in the right way, then there comes a time when we slowly slowly start losing our hopes and We do not become hopeful and we have never set any goal again in the entire life in the world, nor do we try to move towards any other goal.

(4) Money waste 

Next, and of course the most important thing for which every person is worried, for which every person works hard day and night, thats the money  there is also a loss of money. There comes a time when we invest so much. All that money go bad in that particular field.

(5) Bitterness in relationship!

When you move towards your goal and you don't get the results you expected! Then the whole world starts to seem dull to you. You start seeing no hope from everything and it comes a time when a relationship used to be such lovely to you . You start seeing bitterness in that relationship too. Neither do you like anything or any relationship?

Setting result oriented goals will not only make you dull in life but you will be always hopeless ever and forever you will start hating goals and you will feel that all these things are worthless. There is no truth in this.

Result oriented goal cause anxiety, frustration, disappointment, sorrows,fear of failure and this anxiety stops you to perform excellent in your entire life and it only make you extremely unproductive, depressed, hopeless, frustrated, unhappy,

Most important questions to answer

What are the disadvantages of setting result oriented goals?

Are you likely to get disappointed after setting a result oriented goal?

Do an athlete gets results after improving his performance or after focusing on water?

What do you need to be result Oriented or Performance Oriented?

Is your first priority to focus your attention on the result?

Do answer these questions to yourself

Performance oriented goals 

Dreams require action to become true. Otherwise they will remain just that dreams

Setting the Performance Oriented Goal means that you will always be on your way up the ladder of success in your career in your field, in your workplace.

Every successful athletes, Every successful cricketer, every successful wrestler and every successful businessman, whenever they move towards any goal, first of all they work  well on their goal's requirement  strength and basics.

Let me share with you five of the most amazing benefits of being a Performance Oriented Goal Person.

(1) Advantage of your time

One of your first advantages in becoming a performance oriented goal person is time because whatever basics you develop, whatever requirements you will fullfill. This is the thing.  Which Will work with you for lifetime. They are not the wastege any where.

And again you will not need to give so much time and this time which you are giving today for your performance goal. This time will emerge in front of you one day .

(2) Advantage of energy 

Here you will definitely be feel excited because you will absolutely get the results as per your requirement and work hard.

You will never be realised that your all energy went waste and You will feel overjoyed and over-excited with your result and you will never feel that your energy has been wasted the result you have got, because the more energy you put in, you will get the result according to your energy.

(3) Getting enough expectations

Your desired result, the current label of your expectation after the getting , will switch from current level to the next level and you will always start with a very high expectation to your goal and you will achieve it again.

(4) Advantage of money

If you see the money so money is really not the matter because whatever you wanted to achieve from your goals. You have already been achieved it 

There will extremely be alot happiness in your entire life because of your goals then money does not  matter most .

Your money will be also be saved too.

(5) Sweetness in relationship 

After success, good relations with other people are also formed. Leave it to your loved ones. People from far and wide start calling you by this name. That successful man is my relative, then the relationships that happen after achieving the goal after success. Sweetness comes instead of bitterness in relationships. Instead of ugliness comes beauty.

Identify weak points in your entire work 

You will definitely see that results oriented person always concentrated upon his results but after they rechieve failure.

Performance oriented person never focus on winning and losing. They concentrate on improving their performance and skills.

This not only allow them to perform excellent their best, but also resulted in her winning the work or game .

Performance oriented goals always cause you happiness, motivation, inspiration, as well as great satisfaction.

These are the best things they always insists you to put your maximum effort to perform excellent in your entire life and career.

Most important questions to answer yourself

Do you know the basic requirements of your goal?

What all are those basics requirement for your goal?

Is your basic Information enough for your goal?

Do you have a list of the basic requirements of your performance oriented goals?

Do you work on the basics of your goals?

Do you have that ability what you need for your goal?

What are those resources from where you can get your basic requirement?

Who is the person who can help you meet your basic needs?

Do you give yourself enough time to increase your performance?

How much time do you give to improve your performance?

How many people do you know who are successful in their field without performing?

How much time do you need to devote to your goal?

List the things you can sacrifice for your goal?

What is the one thing that stops you from doing better in your goals?

How will your confidence be after the basic needs are met?

Where do you get motivation? Do tell from the seminar, from the book, from the cassette or from your mentor.

Conclusions

You can improve yourself by giving less time than you can spoil yourself by giving more time. You have to become a result oriented person. There is nothing wrong with that, but you must remember that the results come only when your performance is good. Performance is good only when you make your work on basic and strength at once, every successful athlete, wrestler, businessman, cricketer or any successful individual in the world, that every person has done his basics in his performance in improving his performance. Gave more time That's why today is a successful and if you do too then you too will be successful.